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How about ending this exchange...?

Aww...

You are so sweet.

I love you so much,my sister.

G-d bless you

My sisters,my sisters:

I have come to love all of you like sisters. Now, ladies why must we fight among ourselves? Now, I know you're thinking 'she's one to talk'. Afterall, most of you read a post I made to Schmidty. Which was very wrong of me, I must add.

His post hit 'a nerve' with me. Now, is it possible that 'rmommyjulie' original post 'hit a nerve' also? Is it possible that she meant it as encouragement to others?

We all do things in our own way. Sometimes, our way of doing things may unknowingly offend someone else. But, this may not have been the intent of the poster. I know I am guilty of this.

My sisters,my sisters: Is there anyway we can do the 'act' of forgiving one another and 'start over'.

Some of my best friends have been those that we 'initially got off on the wrong foot with'.

Can we look past the hurt? Both of my sisters here feel under attack. And, we when feel like we are under attack its hard to talk things out.

Rather me serving as a cheerleader for one person or a defender for another, I am just wanting to be the 'peacemaker'.

I'm sure under different circumstances, my sisters here would be the best of friends.

Is there anyway both of you could 'look over one's faults & see their needs'??

With much love,

Your sister in the L-rd

This page was started for single moms to find resources to get help. Not for Testimonies or debates ETC. I would appreciate it if you would only Post Resources or HELP ! If you have something to say to Me, Then you can Post on My Page, www.rmommyjulie.aidepage.com   Thanks, God Bless, RmommyJulie  

 A little compassion and empathy can be very helpful...If you have read Nini's posts you would know she has no self pity... I feel your statements to her are very hurtful and completely untrue. She is the first person to help anyone who comes here...If she cannot, she offers them a word of heartfelt kindness - something I have not read in your post.

People come to aidpage for support, understanding, and guidence - not dictatorship. It's true some may need a little push in the right direction - but Nini is far from being one of them. She is a beautiful, gentle soul who truly wishes to help, not hinder people. If that message was lost to you, then I'm sorry, because it is you who is missing out.

L-rd,

Please bless the aidmates here. Please clear up any misunderstandings. Heal the pain of all the individuals that are experiencing pain. Provide for all the needs of everyone here. Father, You like diversity & variety. Hence, explaining why we are all different. But,Father we can only see out of our own eyes & experiences. We are all on the same road. We are all headed to the same 'hotel'. Its 'hotel Death'. Now, how long we have a 'layover' in that hotel is up to You. Then we go to "an afterlife" in one of two places.

Father, as we travel on the road to that hotel bless us to help eachother. Some will have a rough ride while others riding along this highway may seem to be in a 'smoother ride'. Its like riding this road in a car. Some of us will be riding in a 'jalopy with no air conditioner or comforts' while others will be riding in a 'luxury car with alot of comfort'.  But, the destination is the same.

L-rd, please give my sisters here a 'smoother more comfortable ride' in life. Take away the physical pain & the emotional pain.

Bless all here. Amen.

I can see where this discussion may be heading, so before it gets to that point, please take a moment to consider what is being said here.

Everyone's abilities are different, and while anything MAY BE POSSIBLE, not do-able. 

The internet is a great resource for providing information and reaching out to people, however, it lacks one thing - FEELING/emotions. 

It is very difficult to relay emotions across a screen. Please bear that in mind when typing a response and choose your words wisely. 

While many who come here have suffered greatly, others may have suffered just as much but in a different way. However, it is just as traumatic as any one else here. Everyone's life has been touched in a different way. Experience teaches us how to cope with OUR tragedies. Aidpage teaches us how to help others with theirs. Please try to remember that when replying or posting.  

Ok, well SORRY, You took my comment The wrong Way. I am only saying, If you want to you can do anything ! Not to put anyone down. Its only ENCOURAGEMENT. Thats All. God Bless !

I just heard of another Website, www.Freecycle.org ...They give Free Stuff Like, Clothes, Cars,Furniture, Books, ETC. You just have create a Profile, To get Help.